Unnoted evil

A woman is not an object. She is not something; she is someone. You treat a woman with respect. She is not your toy. She doesn’t owe you anything just cause you are a man. When she comes to you for comfort, you listen to her; you don’t make a move on her. Grow up and start treating women how they deserve to be treated.    

A sister of mine sends me a mobile number of someone asking me to inquire about him as he was irritating her with his rib messages. At first, I thought to insult him throwing a tantrum and by visiting all my rage on him, but this would have the chance to exacerbate the situation. So, I opted for calmness. Here, I got a chance to play a trick and made a call to him and he picked up the phone but didn’t bother to say a single word and after a while hung up.

Now, no other idea came into my mind but the cub himself helped me and made my work easy by sending me a message. In the message, he had made excuses saying that because of some technical errors in his mobile he couldn’t talk. I knew, after this, he was gonna ask my name, but I volunteered a fake name of mine and fake address also, which was beyond his consideration. I was told that I had made a call to a wrong number and without my inquiry, the greenhorn blurted out all his information and which give birth to a temporary friendship between us for a while. He was just about to say adieu and I asked if he could do me a favor. Interestingly, the friendship of the short term had got its a haven in his heart that he couldn’t refuse. I directly demanded her sister’s cell number. what was to happen?….. here the friendship has to last. I knew I was at this stage wrong, nevertheless, it was even than purposely. He responded with chastisement and used epithets and consistently sent another message saying that if so, then I should offer her my sister’s number first.

Ultimately, my modus operandi proved to be helpful. And I stated all the facts and told him too much because of his churlish character and affronted him. At first, he contravened and after getting the truckload of evidence in the form screenshots of his messages, the so-called innocency was clicked off and he acknowledged his blooper. Anyway, he soon sensed the aftermath. He contritely apologized and assured me not to ingeminate such blunder.

Now, it’s well that my problem came to its end here, but it’s a social evil that should be mulled over. This ailment is almost found in the majority of the boys. They take pride in themselves for this bad behavior and when it comes to their sisters than it seems evil and malevolent to them. For our own sisters we are highly concerned but why we don’t care for others, aren’t they sisters or daughters to anyone, or we want the same to happen with our sisters, or is it something to be proud of, are these the teachings of Quran or our religion??? 

Our actions are the reflection of the manners we have been given by our parents and of our family because our way of living and behaving is directly related and linked to our families. As said, “manner makes the man”. 

He, who expresses respect and esteem for others and guard other’s glory, is the real upstanding in a true sense in society. And such souls have not to worry for their glory because God is Always there to preserve their glorification. Being a Muslim and followers of Islam we should think that for others what we consider best for ourselves. And this is a true meaning of life and we will, God willing, triumph.